As promised, I am writing an update to our new year progress. I will start with a bit of background info so you can post this without explaining the context.
I met Daddy a few years ago on FetLife. We moved in together after only a couple months but had a rough start at first because our only really shared interest was our ABDL sides. Living in the same house was hard. Daddy was in graduate school and working a part time job, so he was always busy and stressed. I worked but kept leaving jobs over being sexually harassed by coworkers. We broke up twice during the first two years, but neither of us could afford to move out and our kink sides always got the better of us – putting us right back together.
As much as it pains me to admit it, most of our troubles were my fault. My little side demanded attention constantly and I didn’t understand why he couldn’t take time out of his schedule to baby me. It wasn’t until my best friend told me bluntly why that was wrong that I stepped back and looked at it from a new perspective.
I started seeing a therapist, who helped me recognize bad patterns and compensate. The result was like night and day. Rather than demanding attention, I worked hard to earn it. When he would look stressed over his books, I would quietly massage his shoulders and encourage him to relax and keep at it. I would make sure he had a healthy diet of brain food readily available, so he wouldn’t be tempted to eat fast food. And when he was ready to relax, I would cuddle up to him in a thick diaper and run my fingers through his hair until he either fell asleep or fucked me.
As a result of those changes, Daddy got better grades and I learned something about myself – I loved to be a submissive diapered housewife. Daddy graduated last Spring and landed his dream job in November. He now makes enough money that I don’t have to work, so we decided to make my new position official.
On January 1st, we got married. I wore a Princess Rearz diaper under my wedding dress at our wedding – with my entire family in attendance. It was well hidden but feeling it the entire time was incredible. Just to make it more memorable, I peed in the diaper during our nuptials.
As part of our marriage agreement, I officially became a full-time diapered housewife. The toilet is off limits unless Daddy gives special permission. I have a list of chores that have to be completed every day. And I’m signed up to take classes for cooking and sewing. If I break the rules, Daddy has the right to use a number of corrective punishments; including spanking, corner time, mouth soaping, early bed time, delayed diaper changes, etc.
The first week was both good and bad. I’ve messed my diaper many times in play but doing it out of need and then waiting for Daddy to change me isn’t quite as exciting. I made the mistake of eating too much chocolate a couple days ago and messed my diaper for a second time a couple hours after Daddy went to work. I had to wait several hours for him to get home and change me.
It’s taking a lot more getting used to than I expected but I think it will work out. I’m constantly turned on and even enjoying the parts that aren’t quite so enjoyable.
For those wondering – yes, Daddy wears diapers too. He’s not submissive though and very much just a diaper lover. He only wears a couple times a week when he needs to de-stress, but he is still in charge.
Anyway, thanks again for Diapered Online. We have gotten a lot of inspiration from your videos and have acted out more of them than I care to admit to. Lol
With love, Lara